Monday, April 13, 2009

When the girl sends flowers to the guy?

This happened to me, I received flowers from a girlfriend. I just wanted to know is this something new these days? It kind of made me feel like well like the girl! Wonder what anyone thinks of this one. She said she did it just because she was thinking of me. Romantic or creepy?

When the girl sends flowers to the guy?
Hi kings, well I have heard of this - but only in movies...and then it made me wonder. In one episode of %26#039;FRASIER%26#039; a girl sent flowers to Frasier and he began thinking that she was acting like the male in the relationship, and he was right - she was!





In real life I have never known a girl who has sent flowers to a guy.





I guess there is nothing wrong with it, but personally, I dont like it. And if I was a guy I would feel very embarrassed and awkward if it happened to me.





I am sure that you wont be boasting about this to your friends, so I think you feel embarrassed by it.





So, ssshhhhhhhhhhhh...dont tell your friends over a pint tonight!!





Have a nice day :)
Reply:Romantic because she%26#039;s not afraid to make the first move in a relationship whereas others are afraid and sit waiting for a phone call or doorbell to ring.Just know you have a confident girl which is definitely a good thing and don%26#039;t take for granted.
Reply:it kinda creepy. its always been the guy thing, but things change.. i would feel kinda guy ab the whole thing.. tell her your not cool with that and maybe buy you something more manly... maybe it was a joke
Reply:very romantic
Reply:That%26#039;s sweet of her. Thank her, and don%26#039;t question a nice gesture like that.
Reply:Romantic. You should be flattered.
Reply:Definitely romantic. Shows she%26#039;s not afraid to make a move on you.
Reply:we are definitely living in a new age. How else would she tell you she%26#039;s thinking of you?? I think it was very nice of her!!
Reply:Romantic. I wouldn%26#039;t like the flowers, but I would like the gesture.





I would rather she just write me a letter or send me something useful =). I%26#039;m a simple practical guy
Reply:romantic =)))))
Reply:romantic.. the girl really cares about you and she since you wouldn%26#039;t take the step to give her flowers, she%26#039;s ben waiting too long and has taken the step to give u flowers. gernerous isn;t she? u must be grateful that u have such a gf! =)
Reply:That was sweet =)


Who cares what everyone else thinks!
Reply:This is romantic. Just because she is doing an act of the guy means she really likes you it should not be creepy if you feel the same way.





-Shamis
Reply:totally cool....yer lucky!!! the girl must really appreciate you .....





maybe for something you did...yeaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh!!
Reply:kinda different


but romantic thats nice of her :)
Reply:Romantic. If you think it%26#039;s creepy, you%26#039;re shallow. Maybe it%26#039;s a sign fr you to give something back. It%26#039;s totally fine. It means she cares about you!
Reply:The gesture is romantic, but it is not traditional. I know how happy I feel when I receive flowers, so I sent my husband flowers once while we were dating. It was his b-day, I went to the florist and told them that I didn%26#039;t want girly- like roses ( pink, red) since this was for a guy. They tried to butch it up as much as they could... there was this autumn-y colored rose, like a burnt orange. It was unique and not real feminine. They used all greenery in the fill, no baby%26#039;s breath or anything frilly. Sent it to my husband%26#039;s office. I know he appreciated the gesture, but I didn%26#039;t get the feeling he liked receiving flowers as much as I do. He even said, %26quot; I%26#039;ve never had anyone send me flowers before %26quot;. That was almost 7 years ago or so. I%26#039;ve never had the desire to send him flowers since. I was not offended by what sounded like a luke warm response to the gesture. There are so many ways to express affection, so I%26#039;ll just be the one in this relationship who receives the flowers.
Reply:not rele... you should be treating her to something. not the other way aorund. Its a sign that you should do somethign for her.
Reply:It%26#039;s romantic she%26#039;s trying to show you she cares
Reply:creepy omg next she%26#039;ll be opening doors for you and paying when you go out to eat. come on! It was only flowers it%26#039;s not like she sent a dead animal to you
Reply:Maybe if you sent her flowers she wouldn%26#039;t have had to send them to you.





She%26#039;s probably super clingy if she%26#039;s doing stuff like that, though.
Reply:I think the girl had sweet intentions. She probably just thought that she likes receiving flowers so maybe a guy would too. It was a little naive on her part but at least the thought was there! You shouldn%26#039;t let this be the decider of how you feel about her.



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